Lying is a very common behavior per se. There are various reasons one might choose to lie. Perhaps you do not want to cause trouble with your boss, so you might lie that there no problems at work. Perhaps a young adolescent might lie to his parents to cover up the fact that he was hanging out with his buddies.
Pathological lying is different. Pathological lying occurs even in situations where there is no harm in telling the truth.
I have talked in great detail how one could identify pathological lying behavior. To put it very shortly, pathological lying is the continuous behavior of lying irrespective of the consequences of a situation.
In this article, I will explain why pathological lying occurs in the first place.
Why would a person choose to lie even when there is no discernable gain?
I detail multiple reasons for this behavior. Let’s begin!
Shielding from Cognitive Dissonance
Well, consider something that you believed in since childhood. If that belief were to be violated by some new information, how would you feel?
Very anxious, fearful, depressed.
This is because of cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is the disruption of one’s thoughts when the belief that they held is successfully antagonized or challenged by a new belief or reality. The newer belief seems to be antithetical to the prior belief.
This is not exactly a comfortable situation. Here’s why.
To make room for the new belief, not only is the previous one challenged but many implications of the previous belief no longer seem to have a logical basis. So, there is intense tension of thoughts. It could be that you might not know what to do anymore. And if the belief was a core one, it becomes even harder to accept either of the beliefs.
Cognitive dissonance can be observed in people who, for example, get disfranchised with religion.
So, to stave off cognitive dissonance as much as they can, some people might lie to maintain a maladaptive belief. As this belief cannot stand the test of maturity, or is too painful to handle, a pathological liar will attempt to challenge the competing belief, even if it means foregoing logic.
Operant Conditioning
Operant conditioning is a mechanism of learning or adopting behaviors by actively influencing an environment. While there is surprisingly sparse research, there is some case-study based evidence that pathological lying can develop in children as the result of their behavior being reinforcing for them.
So, for example, an individual might find that simply denying any wrongdoing, no matter the magnitude, helps them get out of trouble. As a result, they can repeat this behavior in further circumstances.
This is an example of operant conditioning as the individual operates on the environment (by lying) and they receive negative reinforcement (possibility of their punishment decreases). As they have discovered their action to be reinforcing, the individual will practice this behavior again, as it could help them out of tricky situations in the future.
With this, I will now move on to reasons which might lead to pathological lying through indirect ways. Let’s explore further!
Cognitive Distortions
A maladaptive or irrational belief is not based on a logical and balanced assessment of reality. It could be formed by demandingness, as Albert Ellis would have put it. It could be formed by an antagonistic or traumatic event. Whatever the case may be, irrational beliefs are distorted versions of the perception of reality.
One class of agents which form such irrational beliefs is of cognitive distortions.
To define very simply, cognitive distortions are elements of subjective interpretations of reality which subjectively distort the content or information of one’s beliefs about the reality.
In the case of pathological lying, one could think along certain cognitive distortions. For example, an individual could view the other person as an enemy, engaging in dichotomous thinking (all or none thinking), even when they are relatively neutral in their stance towards the person. As a result, the individual, under the influence of dichotomous thinking – which is a cognitive distortion – could start fabricating information out of paranoia or dislike for the other individual.
Psychiatric Disorders
The psychiatric disorders which contribute the most to pathological lying are usually those that are associated with impulse control. These are usually substance use disorders, gambling disorder, or kleptomania. On the other hand, pathological lying can also be found in individuals with personality disorders – particularly Cluster B personality disorders.
If a person has an impulse control problem, they might try to lie in order to maintain their condition. For example, if one has a substance use disorder, they might lie to their physician about things which could lead to desirable outcomes. They could exaggerate their experience of pain to receive more painkillers. However, this can also fall under the ambit of malingering, which is a psychiatric diagnosis.
Another example could be of lying in personality disorders. An individual with narcissistic personality disorder might lie compulsively in situations where they wish to portray a grand image of themselves.
Much like cognitive distortions, psychiatric disorders might contribute indirectly to pathological lying.
Conclusion
Cognitive dissonance, conditioning, distortion and psychiatric issues, all are interconnected phenomena. All of these aspects can be seen contributing to the incidence of pathological behavior. This is no different in the case of pathological lying. If one follows the psychoanalytic perspective strictly, this behavior could originate from one’s childhood experiences which might be traumatic or disorienting.
Safe to say, pathological lying is not a fun condition. It can disrupt one’s life greatly, causing major problems at work, home, school or any other setting which involves communication. In fact, people who have this issue might find themselves being socially isolated from their protective circle. This, as mentioned earlier, could lead to an even more intensification of their compulsive lying behavior.
If you believe that you or someone you know might have a major issue with it, perhaps speaking to a mental health professional could be the best way to ease your discomfort.