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Analysis of the portrayal of BPD-related themes in Bin Roye Character Saba Shafiq (played by Mahira Khan)

Part1: Analyze the portrayal of BPD-related themes in the drama, focusing on the character of Saba Shafiq (played by Mahira Khan)

Intense and unstable relationships

People with BPD often have difficulty maintaining stable and healthy relationships. They may experience intense and sudden shifts in their feelings towards others, leading to idealization and devaluation of the same person. In the case of Saba, she sometimes has extreme emotions of love towards Irtaza but also gets angry when things don’t go her way. She also idealizes Irtaza by comparing him to the moon. In a scene when Irtaza is coming to their house, she keeps saying that I can see the moon. It was also seen when finally she got married to Irtaza, in the start she did not feel love for him, although that is what she always wanted.

Fear of abandonment

Individuals with BPD may have an intense fear of being abandoned or rejected by loved ones. When Irtaza decided to go to the USA, Saba’s reaction was very extreme and in front of everyone she said that he cannot go to the US and will stay with her forever. She also tries to manipulate him by asking him to stay in Pakistan.

Unstable self-image

People with BPD may struggle with a distorted or unstable sense of self. They may have difficulty understanding who they are, what they want, and what their values and beliefs are. Saba also shows this, when she is not sure, if she wants her sister to be happy with irtaza or not. One time she is content with the marriage of her sister and Irtaza but then she lashes out at the time of the wedding. So she is not sure what she wants.

Hallucinations

After her sister dies, she blames herself for the death of her sister. When she goes to her husband’s house she starts seeing Saman in the mirror, because she feels she has robbed her of this. So she starts experiencing some minor hallucinations that can occur in BPD according to DSM.

From Associated features:

Undermining Self

It is stated in DSM that individuals with borderline personality disorder may have a pattern of undermining themselves at the moment the goal is about to be realized. This associated feature is evident in Saba’s behavior where you can see that after the death of Saman she gets a chance to marry Irtaza, who is the love of her life. But she disagrees and now she wants to marry someone else. 

Ideas of reference

Individuals with borderline personality disorder can also develop ideas of reference. Like when Saba is talking to a lady and she is saying that if you will wish the thing your heart wants it will come before you and then she ask her to close her eyes and Fuff on a rose pattel and when she opens her eyes, Irtaza is standing there by accident. But with Saba’s facial expression she looks happy that her wish came true. So she associates events to be related solely to her.

In conclusion overall the depiction of borderline personality disorder are presented well enough in the series but it still lacks some presentation.

  • The severity and frequency of symptoms is not what it should be in BPD.
  • She also gets Borderline Episode suddenly and then stays normal for a while. This does not happen in BPD.

Part 2: Discuss the role of therapy and support systems in the drama:

Saba did not receive any therapy or intervention for her mental health issue. They did not take her to any psychologist or psychiatrist. This is close to reality because personality disorders are rarely reported, or people rarely go to therapy for personality disorders until and unless they are in very severe condition.

If we talk about how her family played a role in the severity of her symptoms. We can see that she was very close with Irtaza but still her family allowed them to be together and do what they were doing. Although their behavior with each other was opposite to social norms but family still allowed it.

One detrimental thing was that after finding out that she had feelings for Irtaza they still did not let them get married or resolved this issue, which made her situation even worse.

Her grandmother was supportive of her and she used to confide in her grandmother so she was an important support figure for her. Also after the death of Saman, Saba’s family did understand how much impact it had on Saba and they consoled her and gave her space. They also helped with getting her out of the toxic marriage she had with Aamir. Also when they married her to Irtaza they let her go to the US and that made them rebuild their relationship.

Irtaza was also very supportive and appeared as a strong protective factor as he was tolerant of Saba’s behavior and emotions when she was not letting him stay with her in one room and when he was getting avoided by her. He supported her in that period and also shared his love with her and made her understand that she was not the cause of Saman’s death.

Part 3: Management For Borderline Personality Disorder

DBT typically combines various elements, including group skills training, individual psychotherapy, and phone coaching, although there can be variations. Throughout DBT therapy, patients are encouraged to monitor their symptoms and utilize the skills they’ve learned on a daily basis, with their progress being tracked (May et al., 2016).

There are four primary categories of skills covered in DBT skills training:

Mindfulness Meditation Skills:

Mindfulness meditation skills focus on being fully present in the current moment. These skills involve observing, describing, and participating in all experiences, including thoughts, sensations, emotions, and external events, without passing judgment on them. These core skills are essential for effectively applying other DBT skills.

For instance, Saba in this example showed extreme emotions at the event of the wedding when Irtaza and Saman were getting married, she even cursed Saman. Mindfulness Meditation skills could have helped Saba stay in the moment and observe her feelings and act effectively on them. She did love Saman, so if she would have thought about what she wanted to do she would have stopped herself from cursing her.

Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills:

This skill module emphasizes the ability to assert one’s needs successfully and manage conflicts in relationships.

Saba had conflicts in her relationship with both Saman and Irtaza. Improving her interpersonal skills would help her deal best with the conflicts that she has in different relationships in her life.

Distress Tolerance Skills:

The distress tolerance skills module focuses on learning how to accept and tolerate distress without engaging in behaviors that may worsen the situation in the long run, such as self-harm. Like when Saba was feeling distressed that she wished Saman to be dead and now she was dead and Irtaza and her family wanted her to marry Irtaza but she blamed herself for the death of Saman and married someone who was worse for her. Distress tolerance would have stopped Saba from making these rash decisions.

Emotion Regulation Skills:

In this module, patients learn to identify and manage their emotional reactions. Emotion regulation involves enhancing or reducing emotions to respond effectively and achieve personal goals. This would have helped Saba to be emotionally stable and react with calm in situations where she was feeling overwhelmed and reacting to her emotions.

References:

May JM, Richardi TM, Barth KS. Dialectical behavior therapy as treatment for borderline personality disorder. Ment Health Clin. 2016;6(2):62–67. doi:10.9740/mhc.2016.03.62

Disclaimer: This is opinion based article and does not include medical advise. Contact professionals if you are dealing with any psychological issues.

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Understanding the Origins of Walter White from Breaking Bad

Walter White – or Heisenberg – is the main protagonist of the American series Breaking Bad.

Played by Bryan Cranston (a great actor), White is a chemistry teacher at J. P. Wynne High School. Safe to say, he has a middle class life, involving all the perks and pits of ‘mediocrity’.

At the start of the series, White discovers that he has lung cancer. This makes him challenge not just the utility of getting a very expensive treatment but also of his own life. But, catering to his family’s wishes and understanding that they need him, he decides to choose to live.

Walter White is a dynamic character. In this essay, I will attempt to analyze him based on his

  • Circumstances
  • Motives

If you wish to check out Walt’s personality profile, you can do so by clicking this. So, without further ado, let’s take a deep dive into Heisenberg’s world.

It is impossible to understand White without knowing where he comes from. Walter White turns 50 at the start of the series.

With relevance to the story and Walt’s situation, his circumstances can be divided along three major axes.

Work

He is a chemistry teacher at a high school. But he had not pictured himself as being in this position. He had contributed to Nobel-worthy research and he was a partner at Gray Matter Technologies, along with his best friend at the time, Elliot Schwartz.

But Walt sold his share of the company, and the company later grew into a multi-billion dollar enterprise.

Instead of having been in an active lab at a resourceful facility, being financially independent at 50, Walt was stuck teaching to classes of disinterested students and enjoying a meager pay.

So, when the news of his lung cancer is out, Walt does not feel as if he has much to live for.

Except for one major reason.

Family.

Family

Walt is married to Skyler White, with a young boy, Walter White Junior, in middle school and a daughter on the way.

However, it is not like Walt is a perfect father or husband. Rather, he struggles with himself about the fact that he hasn’t provided enough for his family. He appears to be more tired in life but he softens in the pillow therapy scene in the show, for his pregnant wife and son.

Social Circle

It is also important to note that Walt holds some of his relations in high regard. He opened up in the pillow therapy scene partly thanks to his sister-in-law, Marie Schrader, and her husband, Hank Schrader.

Other than his immediate family and his wife’s sister, Walt’s social circle extends only to associates at work and his past friends. However, he is not very happy about his friendship with Gretchen, his former lab assistant and ex-fiance, and Elliott who Gretchen married.

He is tired, dejected, broke. However, he also has a loving family, a stable job, living in a middle-class neighborhood.

The main point of contention here is not feeling unfulfilled. Rather, Walt appears to hate mediocrity.

So, it is this context that sets the stage for the rest of Walt’s life.

We have looked at Walt’s circumstances at the beginning of the story. Now, we will see what drives him.

For the purposes of simplifying White’s motives, I have divided them into two different categories.

Getting Paid and Treated Adequately

Throughout the show, a running theme is Walt being compensated with what he deserves. The central goal is not just money. After all, if he had wanted only money, he would have tried to negotiate a higher price for his services as a meth chef for Gustavo Fring. Indeed, Jesse Pinkman was furious that he had agreed to cook meth for such a small price.

Moreover, I assert here that this central belief of “I should be treated how I deserve to be treated,” runs also in Walter’s work relationship with Tuco, Pinkman, Mike and Fring. When he feels that the other person is not treating as he deserves to be treated, he tries to neutralize the threat.

While sharing finances with Mike and Pinkman, he splits the money in equal proportions. He gives others what he thinks they deserve as aligned with the general logical conception of fairness. When he does all the work, he expects the other person to not take away the outcomes of the work he does.

However, these beliefs about what someone deserves is purely based on who does the work. For example, he claims that there is no other half for Pinkman, as he thought that he was doing all the work himself.

He fights with Mike, arguing against paying off other people when he operates with Mike and Pinkman after Fring.

However, there is another core belief that has often clashed with his belief of getting what one deserves. Let’s look into Walt’s motives regarding his family.

“All I do is For the Benefit of the Family”

This seems to be among the chief rationales for Walter’s sudden move towards selling meth. He understood that this has the potential of paying off his chemo treatment. Moreover, he wants to save and leave enough money for his wife and children to live the rest of their lives in relative affluence. He buys his son a Mustang. Moreover, he discloses his secret to Skyler and then takes her counsel over conducting his business more safely.

Having said that, there are many actions of his that are not justified by the two beliefs mentioned above.

With that, let’s take a dip into Walt’s ego trip. This is where I will refer to Walt as Heisenberg.

I’m Good At It; It Makes Life Worth Living

Based on Walter’s circumstances, one could conclude that he did not really only want to teach. Rather, the way that he teaches his lectures is disinteresting to his students. While he initially tries to pursue it passionately, as seen in the pilot episode, he apparently begins to lose his own interest as well.

His entire resume right until he sells his shares in Gray Matter Technologies, speaks of work that is lab-based and interesting. So, led by his desire to earn far more money than he was earning at the time, Heisenberg constructed his own lab in an RV. Later on, this lab is greatly expanded under Gustavo Fring and when he finally began operating independently of Fring. He appears to be driven while he is working in the lab.

There are two reasons for this:

  • Increase in self-efficacy
  • Increase in interest in life

For Heisenberg, there is ambition involved in making meth. When Pinkman talks about quitting, Heisenberg argues against this, showing his ambitions for expanding his business.

Another example is when he ends up earning such a significant amount that Skyler loses count of the money – which is not normal for Skyler, who is managing an entire car wash facility. She asks Heisenberg with exasperation about how long he would continue his drug business, because if it was only for the family, then they have enough money to last lifetimes.

Conclusion

Walter White aka Heisenberg is a well-written character who grows as the series progresses. This does not mean that White did not commit many mistakes.

But, don’t we all?

To understand a character or even a living person, it is important to take their circumstances into consideration. Once you do that, you will find that it becomes much easier to trace their motives by how they act in different situations.

Even if the character is a drug-emperor!

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The Personality of Walter White from Breaking Bad

Walter White is the main protagonist of the acclaimed show Breaking Bad. In this short analysis, I will go through the personality traits that Walter White seemed to possess.

I am using the five factor model of personality to assess Walt’s character. Below, I’ve written it down in very brief points. If you wish to understand Walter White more deeply, check out this character analysis.

Let’s begin!

Walt is intelligent.

He is also open to other value systems. He can justify crime but, on the other hand, he also shows some understanding of how his drug business does not conform to societal standards of clean living. Moreover, he is also creative; this is shown in how he deals with Tuco, manipulating him effectively and creatively.

It should be said, however, that he could make better aesthetic choices. While the hat on Heisenberg is certainly stylish – the outfit is put together haphazardly. A more aesthetic individual would probably put his outfit together close to someone like Hannibal or Dexter.

Throughout the runtime of Breaking Bad, Walt is shown to be a workaholic, often coming home late.

There are also clear pieces of evidence of his ambitions; such as when he discloses to Pinkman about his plans to expand upon their business, with Gustavo Fring gone. He also organizes his attempts to get rid of threats were carefully.

Walt does not have a very big social circle.

In fact, the people he confides in are limited to just his immediate domestic and work circle. In the beginning of the show, Walter is visibly inhibited while interacting with the many people who had come to his birthday party.

Other than this, Walt is shown to be outgoing only in situations where he has some other ulterior motive. For example, when he agrees to join Hank Schwader on a drug bust, he only seems to have the intention of seeing how the drug business is run from a house. Otherwise, he had refused Hank previously to go to such operations.

It will be wrong to say that Walter is not empathic. He certainly understands how Jesse Pinkman feels, when the latter’s girlfriend died early on in the show.

Having said that, Walt stands his ground over points that he disagrees with.

He firmly refuses Gustavo Fring’s offer to work for him early on, until one of his own motives was fulfilled. Furthermore, in an argument with Mike, he chose to work independently of Mike when faced with the choice of giving his money to people who he thought did not deserve it. He is also compliant only when his own interests are involved. When his interests are not met, he seemingly is discarding of others’ worth – as was the case in his paranoia towards Gustavo Fring.

Walter appears to handle the news of his death fairly well.

Rather, he is accepting of it.

While there certainly is a factor of being bored and disinterested in his life at the beginning, he does not display enough dysfunction to qualify for depression, anxiety or a fixation on negative emotions.

Even after ‘having lost everything’, Walter does all the tasks that he sets for himself at the end of the show.

There are, however, indications of anger issues. Some of his thoughts seem to be off base. For example, he believes that his former friend Elliott and former fiancé mistreated him, reaping the benefits of his work. However, it was he who impulsively sold his share of Gray Matter Technologies.

Summary

Walter exhibits signs of having a creative, industrious and meticulous personality. He likes to work long hours on his craft to the point where the money that he earns is almost irrelevant. However, he also considers himself to be a dutiful family member, and this justification is often used for his workaholism and continued meth-cooking. He can bear social gatherings, but he would rather spend the time with a few people who are within his closer social circles.

Furthermore, Walt retaliates quickly when he senses danger near to his close social circles, indicating a secure attachment style. Due to his intellectual capacity to formulate complex plans, he is able to stay aloof of both his competitors and the law enforcement.

In some ways, his thoughts and actions seems to align somewhat close to a high-intelligence subclinical antisocial personality.